Own Your Happiness

We are the true owners of our own happiness. In every circumstance we are in, we can give ourselves reasons to be happy or reasons to be unhappy. When we are angry with someone, when we harbour hate inside us, when we feel negative, we surrender a part of our happiness ownership to them. The more we dwell on the negative thoughts, the more of the happiness ownership we transfer to them. In the end, we start to blame the people who have hurt us, the people who make us angry and the people who cause us so much misery. This results in more hate, anger and frustration, especially when we think that all these sufferings are out of our control. When that happens, we have basically surrendered all our happiness ownership to them. We have no control over our happiness as our mind is obessed with the negative thoughts.

This is not true, we have absolute control over our happiness. While there may be people or events that create the negativity in us, we do need to transfer the ownership of our happiness to them. There is no benefits doing that because we get more negative and in the end, the ones who suffer most are ourselves. So, take ownership of your happiness, don't play the "blame" game and choose all the reasons to be happy. The people/ events who are taking control of your happiness are not worthy to be the master of your happiness, only you are worthy, so don't give it to them.