When you don't like someone and happen to see that person doing very well, leading a seemingly happier life than you, do you feel uncomfortable? You may be thinking, what has he/ she done to deserve these blessings after the hurt inflicted on you previously?
That is the power of hate, which brings about anger. You see that while that person is enjoying life elsewhere, he/ she is not inflicting any more damages to you (at this moment). However, the hate inside you decides that you should suffer more, with reasons of anger or injustice filling your mind.
There is no other way that you could do to make you feel better, other than to put down the hate and to shift the focus away. Whatever hurt/ damage has passed, if you cant forgive that person, so be it, but dont torture yourself with more sufferings by harbouring the hate and evoking the painful memories. The reasons of happiness and unhappiness lay in front of you everyday, make a wise choice, my dear friends.
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