The year 2014 was a fantastic year for me in terms of community
service. My Project Act of Random Kindness - PARK initiative was picking
up, I started this group, P2P, and together we helped many projects/
initiatives achieve their goals and reach out to those in need. I also
had another group where we rally everyone to help water the drying
plants everywhere in Singapore and we were all so happy when the rain
finally came.
Just when life couldn't get better, I crossed path
with the big 'C'. I was initially very confident of my health as I
rarely fell sick and didn't want to go through a biopsy. The doctors
told me that the chance of getting the illness is only 1%, considering
my age and health profile. I did it anyway to get a peace of mind. The
biopsy result turned out positive and I was diagnosed with the early
stage of a rare and aggressive cancer. It was a period of denial
followed by uncertainty and then fear, as I struggled to cope with the
diagnosis. I was not the only one suffering, my family members suffered
together with me. We were busy running around, seeking 2nd opinion,
learning more about the illness and exploring the treatment options.
Luckily, I was well covered by insurance then and only need to fork out
10% of the total treatment cost. Otherwise, the medical bills would be
another burden for me.
From my own experience, I know that cancer
can hit anyone and sometimes it is very unexpected. I was living a
healthy lifestyle, I don't smoke or drink, I rarely fell sick and there
was no family history in my entire family tree but somehow I still got
it. When cancer happen to a young child, it is even more heartbreaking,
because their lives have barely started. Their time should be spent on
exploring the wonders of the world and not in battling this illness. It
is a draining journey, waiting for test results is nerve-racking and
sometimes complications kicks in during the treatment cycle. Even if
results are negative, the risk and fear of relapse are always there.
I think we as fellow members of the community, can do our part to
support the children suffering from cancer and their families. If I can
forgo that just one meal at my favorite Japanese restaurant or miss just
that one movie and use that amount to help save a life, I think it is
money well spent. I hope we can all understand that we are not just
donating money, we donating hope as well, to encourage these children
and their families that they are not alone and many are in this battle
with them.
This is my campaign to raise funds for CCF, to help the families of children cancer patients:
https://www.ccf.org.sg/giving/fundraisng_event.php?id=fundraising-for-children-with-cancer
I know I can count on all of you to make a difference. This is what
makes our group great and this is what that makes every one of you
special and wonderful.
Thank you for believing in kindness and
thank you for spreading your love to those who need them the most. Let's
build a better world for ourselves and many generation to come.
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