I ordered Saba Fish for lunch and sat near the counter, then this lady came along and ordered the same dish but her fish was like much bigger. Wah...angry liao...why so unfair one? Why her fish bigger than mine when we paid the same price?
How do we define fairness? In Life, we win some, we lose some, nobody can be a forever winner. If her fish is bigger than mine, maybe mine is tastier than hers? Maybe she had it better than me this time round, but my life is full of other blessings that she doesn't have?
Life can throw us many reason to be unhappy, often shifting your focus to smallest things and make you feel disadvantaged in some ways. We should take a step back and look out of that angle and appreciate what we are blessed with, in many other aspects. Also, wishing people well is a great way to diffuse the negativity that comes from feeling envy and jealousy. I choose to think this way, "this lady has a bigger fish, I am happy for her".
Keep the thoughts positive, love the people around you and Life will love you back ! Have a fabulous weekend ahead :)
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