Have we sometimes wished that some people have never come into our lives, especially those who hurt us, heaped misery on us or cheated us? However, these people come into our lives for a reason. Because of their existence, we can better appreciate those who truly care for us and are always there for us.
If we have never experienced the harsh cold winter, we would not have cherished the warm summer months. If we had not scaled the heights of the mountain, we would not have truly appreciated the spectacular view at the top of the mountain. If there is no Monday blues, there would not be weekend/ holiday joys. If there are no mean people in this world, the good and kind people would seem very ordinary.
As our wounds heal, we become stronger, just as how healing from blisters made our skin tougher and less prone to future blisters. Let's not harbour any hate against these people because we will suffer further if we hold onto the negative emotions. If we can't forgive them, then let's just ignore them, move on with life and channel the energy and time to our true friends and loved ones. We will find inner peace and be happier this way.
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